Should You Buy First or Sell First? A Guide for Homeowners Making a MoveIf you're planning to move, one of the biggest questions you'll face is: Should you buy your next home first, or sell
Dated: January 9 2026
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Buying a home is exciting—but one of the most important (and often misunderstood) questions buyers face is: How much house can I really afford? While online calculators can give you a rough estimate, the true answer goes far beyond a single number. Let’s break it down in a practical, real-world way.
Before looking at home prices, take a close look at your monthly comfort level. A lender may approve you for a higher amount than you want to spend—and that’s okay.
Ask yourself:
How much do I want my total housing payment to be each month?
Do I still want room for savings, travel, hobbies, and emergencies?
Am I planning for kids, career changes, or other big expenses?
A home should support your lifestyle—not stretch it thin.
Your mortgage payment is more than just principal and interest. Make sure you factor in:
Property taxes
Homeowners insurance
HOA fees (if applicable)
Private Mortgage Insurance (PMI) if putting less than 20% down
Two homes with the same price can have very different monthly payments depending on these costs.
Many lenders use the 28/36 rule as a benchmark:
No more than 28% of your gross monthly income on housing costs
No more than 36% total on all debts (housing, car loans, credit cards, student loans)
This isn’t a hard rule, but it’s a solid starting point for staying financially balanced.
Your down payment affects:
Monthly payment
Interest rate options
Whether PMI is required
While 20% down can help you avoid PMI, many buyers successfully purchase with 3%–10% down. The key is understanding how each option impacts your long-term finances.
Beyond the down payment, buyers should plan for:
Closing costs (typically 2–4% of the purchase price)
Moving expenses
Immediate repairs or furnishings
Emergency savings after closing
Owning a home is more comfortable when you’re not draining every dollar to get there.
Just because you’re approved for a certain amount doesn’t mean you should use it all. A comfortable home budget allows you to:
Enjoy your home without financial stress
Handle repairs without panic
Continue building savings and wealth
The right home price is one that lets you sleep well at night.
Online calculators are helpful, but they don’t know your goals. The best way to determine affordability is by:
Talking with a trusted local lender
Reviewing multiple payment scenarios
Aligning your purchase with your long-term plans
“How much house can I afford?” isn’t about the maximum number—it’s about the right number for you. With the right guidance and planning, you can buy a home that fits both your budget and your lifestyle.
If you’d like a personalized affordability breakdown or want to explore homes within a comfortable payment range, feel free to reach out. I’m happy to help you plan with confidence. 🏡
Call or text me at (989) 213-8163 for more information.
Shawn Rowden
RE/MAX Platinum
Associate Broker
(989) 213-8163

I am a full time Associate Broker | REALTOR with RE/MAX Platinum and have been in real estate as a licensed Realtor since 2012 and earned my Brokers license in 2016. I am born and raised in the area a....
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